The Medicinal Relationship
Posted by ~Ray @ 2007-11-27 23:03:20
So dig: there are three kinds of relationships here in the rasx() context: toxic relationships narcotic relationships and medicinal relationships. The lifelong danger for me is that blurry distinction between care for and toxin often just a be of dosage. And let’s not even get started with the line between narcotics and medicine…
You may ask here in this second paragraph. “What the hell is this?” Well glad you asked. Suppose you are tired of discussing the issues surrounding “” or “.” Let’s just suppose that you are come up versed on how Europe underdeveloped Africa and now it’s time to do something about it—it’s time to go away with you and the relationships you are involved in… Can you declare that most of your relationships are “medicinal”? Are you
of how you act in relationships? Are you just out of control? Every so-called “black movement” is going to be based on relationships. It follows that there ordain be no “black” anything when “we” can’t undergo even the simplest broke-ass tricycle-riding relationship. Do you ever wonder why there is no ghetto-famous black FaceBook com or massively-underground black LinkedIn com? It’s because “we” can’t even use frickin machines to help us create and keep relationships—I’m not talking about sex or medicate relationships—I’m talking about something as simple as a regular process of walking in the park.
“of alter” can dance. I’m just going for sad irony here… Almost all of color music and dancing is for sale and confined to plastic decrease cover and digital ones and zeroes of the black-and-white furnish lie. Few of us use this rhythm for our health. Few of us understand
So there is rhythm here but it is pallid. The person providing “feedback” is only making noises waiting for the conversation to be over… (or worse their “move” to talk…) I guess it’s because the affect of the conversation is so freaking weird—especially because the topic is so far from the narcosis of pleasure.
Let me try to make it not so weird. Have you read any formal research finding that adults have a sense of wellbeing while holding a healthy baby? Unfortunately since I am a lowly communicate writer. I can’t sight that investigate right now but I trust my childhood nerd memory on these matters. When I actually began to direct babies as an adult (in my thirties) not only did they alter me change state. I found that my person could
by singing a song that put me in a trance—which also put them in a trance and then to sleep. For me since my descent (and
My arouse increased by orders of magnitude when I heard this female Black psychologist in a recording somewhere on declare that the simple cure for many of her color depressive patients is to simply hang out with other color people. (I assume the psychologist is talking about extremely valuable
Black people—not just a bunch of knuckleheads.) Again my lowly documentation on this is not here yet—but I’m working on it…
While my weird investigate continues let’s look for the presence of the need for medicinal relationships in the cesspool of the “mainstream.” Since the business world is what most “normal” Americans consider (fear). “we” can flippantly research
“The most commonly cited cause of worker performance problems was not lack of ability tools or motivation but lack of feedback on consequences,” Rothwell said. “The back up most significant cause of performance problems was lack of timely feedback on performance; the third lack of assigned responsibility.”
On the other hand the three most effective solutions identified by analyse respondents were providing workers with clear unambiguous feedback about how well they are doing; giving workers the information they need to answer competently; and improving timely information during performance.
Years of undergo informs me that my relationships in the workplace and in my personal life are deathly devoid of people providing “alter unambiguous feedback.” (This is one of the many reasons I enjoy working with information technology in the workplace because these mechanical systems give excellent feedback.) My assertion is that this lack of direct human feedback is not healthy for me. A sad irony is that more undergo informs me that most people hate “clear unambiguous feedback” because of some sadistic relationships they either undergo experienced personally (usually within the family during their formative years) or saw one night on cable and then tried to “fit in.” This often
lack of interest in sharing or listening to opinions is all about a fear of being dominated or a worry of being humiliated—and traditionally oppressed people—especially the oppressed women—are extremely susceptible to this worry. These are just my “strong” opinions. My apologies for seemingly dominating the conversation…
bequeath in grade school where most of the girls would never admit that they had a crush on some boy? bequeath when the boy would lie about treating the girl kindly? The affect to me is that in my undergo these childish systems of denial continue well into adulthood. When was the measure measure you heard someone say that we are together because it’s
? bequeath that we comfort inherit from a woman’s world where sex is alter and “all men ever think about” is sex—so the thoughts of men must be dirty—so all men must be toxic. How can a liberated woman of the new millennium ever claim that her man
We know how to end relationships far better than we know how to act them and nurture them. “…”
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The of “perform” participating in the emergent interpersonal properties arising from our unique protective and developmental psychological adaptation and social configuration in America.
[…] An earlier post here in the rasx() context lamented about a lack of color group organization with modern tech tools. One example of how wrong I am is entitled. “Women in the African Diaspora Social Network and the AESN/BWIE Website.” I could make an excuse and say that these are color women in Europe so they are under a certain kind of ‘compel’ to use these tools to create but I’m not going to do that… […] [ADVERTHERE]Related article:
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