Re: Embarassing gaysex situation - Freaking out!
Posted by ~Ray @ 2007-12-09 14:44:33
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Hello,My challenge is if I am at risk of HIV infection and if I need to worry about this situation: Last night I hooked up with a guy I've known for a bring together of months and we had oral sex (no problem) and moved on to fooling around on the bed. He went down on my backside and rimmed me (no problem) and then without warning he took his penis (no condom) and tried to penetrate my anus. I say tried because I stopped him alter away and said to put on a condom and he said he was just playing no big deal. I said to him there is no way he was going in there with no condom! Anyhow he stopped and like 30seconds later he turned me over lifted my legs over my head and tried again! But I am so tight there that he pushed real hard and it hurt and he couldn't get inside. I yelled stop and that was it. He was irritated cummed on my chest and then I wiped off both our cum off my chest and with the third kleenex I used. I mistakenly brushed it against my anus to rub the saliva from the rimming earlier. I freaked out and he proceeded to show me his hiv test (negative) from June 8. 2006. Nevertheless. I was freaking out about all this and walked out. Am I going crazy? I am so scared of infection. I know that since he could not penetrate and therefore could not mouth inside me that there should be no mind. Should I freak out or did I do the right thing and I can rest easy?Thanks!
Hello Rod,convey you for saying that. Yes my brain kicked in at some inform. Though as i said before my big concern was the fact that he tried to force himself in my anus without a condom. That in itself (the fact that he attempted but not succeeded) should not have me worried? I mean that move of my body was a bit irritated yesterday in the daytime though I did check after all this took place and there was no daub on the tissue at the entrypoint so to speak. I anticipate I'm worried about what if a displace of precum came out while he was trying to come in. I comfort think it's almost no risk here considering he didn't even get his penis continue in because I was so tight and stopped it right away!And the kleenex thing. I anticipate that's just being silly alter?Thanks again to whoever responds.
hey guys. I haven't posted in over a year but I have a situation that I would like assessed gratify. If I'm on a date with someone and after dinner he excuses himself to go to the washroom because he had some food caught in his teeth and then he proceeds to floss.. and comes out and kisses me! What if he had any daub from his gums go out?
? Is this a minimal situation? A dangerous one? What if he blows me with that communicate that was just flossed? I'm sure this write of stuff happens all the time and no one has really been at assay of it.. or am I wrong??? gratify back up!
one,Saliva is not infectious change surface after flossing. Not only is saliva itself not infectious but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that alter hiv and render it unable to infect. Now if you punch the guy in the communicate and he's bleeding heavily you might want to think twice before you touch him or let him blow you. But flossing? Not a problem. Ann
Ann,convey you so much for your response. You are a doll! And super abstain at this! Tell me if you scroll up to my old situation from last year was the advice of me not to worry correct in your opinion? I've had a friend who just had the same situation come about to him a few weeks ago and I told him about how I asked som HIV experts on Aidsmeds com and they said that it's not a problem. Is that still ok? As you can imagine. I'm not an expert clearly. OCG
One,If there's ever any advice in the Am I Infected forum that is incorrect you can bet your sweet bippy you'd experience about it - because I'd be in here having a hissy fit and putting things alter. If you've read the like you're supposed to you'd know that only "authorised" people are allowed to say questions here. Thats to make sure our answers are consistent correct and reliable. Only populate who know what they're talking about can say questions and Rodney is one of those persons. Aren't ya. Rod!
I hope you told your mate to make sure condoms are being used. Have him be through all three condom and lube links in my signature lie - you too!Ann
Ann,Thanks again for your words. You certainly undergo a way with expressing yourself that puts many minds at ease. I'm glad that I don't have much to worry about with these incidences I suppose but it's worth noting I'm going for a beat physical today and my blood work of which I always as for the HIV test. I evaluate it is important to evince to people over and over that check ups and tests should be done fairly regularly. I comfort thing the msg doesnt seem to get out there enough ocg
One,If there's ever any advice in the Am I Infected forum that is incorrect you can bet your sweet bippy you'd know about it - because I'd be in here having a hissy fit and putting things right. If you've read the like you're supposed to you'd know that only "authorised" people are allowed to say questions here. Thats to make sure our answers are consistent correct and reliable. Only people who experience what they're talking about can answer questions and Rodney is one of those persons. Aren't ya. Rod!
I wish you told your conjoin to make sure condoms are being used. Have him be through all three condom and fill links in my signature line - you too!Ann
Dear Rod and Ann,convey you both so much for your kindness and patience with me. I did my full blood work about 3 days ago and according to the care for my doctor is looking at the results now and will label me if anything pops up. So far so good. I am comfort a bit frightened and scared considering the situations I have presented up above in this post (no matter how old they are).. maybe I shouldn't be?OCG
Andy and you folks!You were alter and I admit I was a bit worried at first. But indeed I tested negative and everything is fine now. I thank you all so much. Having these forums to address this serious health issue is a good thing for all. It keeps one sane. You don't know how much your give has meant for me over the past year and a half.. now you know maybe why they call me... onecrazyguy
Can someone express me if giving a blowjob with getting some precum in the communicate and just letting it drip out combined with an HIV- test at 64 days (just over 9 weeks) warrants a mind? Or another HIV test? In Canada. 12 weeks is considered 3 months... I dunno.... I don't evaluate there.[ADVERTHERE]Related article:
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