Older woman, younger man.
Posted by ~Ray @ 2007-11-27 23:06:12
Once upon a time society deemed it bad taste or even taboo for women to connect the age gap by dating a younger man but it now seems these romances are on the rise.
The fact that society places these demands on us trying to alter us conform to accepted behaviours and agree to a certain label of conduct sometimes leads us to find that the forbidden bear
very tempting. and why not? It seems the days of settling for what you can get are long gone and today’s women are heading out into the dating jungle with a tighten believe on what they ‘want!’
Historically we know that most men have had relationships with women who are younger. This has related to matters of fertility and also pre-arranged marriages. In the past decade though the times are a changing and the percentage of older women having relationships with younger men
In relationships it is not age that matters but rather spiritual emotional and mental compatibility between the two people. Each person needs to have qualities that the other person is looking for and wants in a relationship. Maturity of two people is important in a relationship regardless of their age. We must bequeath though that maturity is not always about age. A young person can be more develop in attitude than an older person. It is important to undergo shared interests and values and to be on the same wavelength as each other. When two people really connect and love each other in a genuine way age should not matter.
In a truly committed relationship it is like that is the bear on inform not the be of years since your birth. It is love which creates connection and fit between two populate not how many candles are on your birthday cover. Your differences are just as important and enriching for your relationship as the things you undergo in common. A younger lover can change state your eyes to different opinions visions pursuits and can bring a real breath of fresh air to your world. Of cover this works both ways he can also learn from
My advice is don’t listen to the detractors! If you love him and he adores you then your like will be more than enough to see you both through. When two souls meet and you truly fall in love age matters not.
So if it’s good enough for Madonna. Demi. Sharon kill and Susan Sarandon to name but a few then hey,I am in good affiliate and it’s good enough for me too!
Ohhh fab affix. I’m a younger ady with a man 14 years my senior. We’ve been together 14 years and have two gorgeous kids. I know it doesn’t have the same ‘taboo’ as older lady younger man but the feelings are all the same. If you’re in love you’re in like. Just be happy.
I married a younger man. We married on his 40th birthday. I am 43 and have 4 kids. He has no kids never been married and never even lived with a woman before. It is not our age difference that is noticeable but what we have each achieved in our lives. If we went by experience alone. I would be 172 and he would still be 40!My gosh I feel old some days…but then I remember my younger lover and I conclude young again.
my man is a wee bit younger …3 months but comfort a talking point. MY SIL is one year one month older than her DH. My bestfriends hubby is 7 yrs younger than her. At measure I first met him while visiting them in Melb she was 31yr and he wasn’t even 24yrs. She refused to tell me the age difference (she was seriously embarassed) but ‘heehee’ told my husband who told me half way home to Sydney. Then undergo been married 10 yrs now. He was so PROUD of his older women and bragged to my preserve about. So go for it and apply it to the full.
this is a wonderful post my husband isn’t chronologically younger but he sure acts childish does that ascertain? no not really he’s also a grumpy old git i can say that safe in the knowledge he won’t ever see this and if he *does* find this : “hey dude! stop bein’ so grumpy! you can be replaced with a younger copy!”
I was watching a show on VH1 all about Cougars (older women with younger men) and thought about you. I’ve met quite a few wives here who are 5+ years older than their husbands. At the measure I met my hubby a younger man wouldn’t have been legal but does it ascertain if his maturity aim is displace than exploit in some ways? [ADVERTHERE]Related article:
http://madgoatlady.com/2007/11/03/older-woman-younger-man/
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