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With its explosive and disturbing first chapter. Merging With Monsters captures your attention with a brutal scene that lays the foundation of Anita Powers one of the main charters of the story. As she endures an attack the reader is swept into her life and the framework of a captivating story is laid. Joseph Green the author has written a revealing story that deals with issues of race in the workplace and general attitudes toward race and sex. Each of the characters has some personal demon that they are grappling with and these experiences mold how they interact with each other. The emotions and feeling of the characters leap off the page into your subconscious as you slowly mouth to learn more about them. From the ambitious African American executives Grayson Malone and Anita Powers who find themselves pitted against each other to the lovable character of Phoebe Jackson a young woman whose life is tragically altered and is left dealing with bouts of depression and suicidal thoughts. All the central players in this drama add to the compelling and relentless story helping alter Merging with Monsters a very engaging novel. The story of work achievement married with personal and inter-office conflicts is the backbone of Merging with Monsters solidifying the book as a must read. Green: I was born in El Paso. Texas and grew up in Colorado Springs. Colorado. My dad served in the Army for 20 years; and as the oldest of three brothers. I was accustomed to assuming a leadership role within the family. Now that my father has passed away from bone cancer. I work even harder at appreciating the enable of each new day; and creating and maintaining productive and beneficial relationships. My love of writing was born out of a childhood habit of escaping into the fantasy worlds offered by books. I always enjoyed reading and recognized very early in my life the power of the written word. As a freshman at Stanford University. I became pretty much obsessed with writing and getting my first novel. Pseudo Cool published. And this proved a very exciting and rewarding endeavor since the book was sold by Stanford University's bookstore and I had the pleasure of witnessing strangers actually spend money on something that I wrote. You gave an example of how people of color/background tend to gather with their desire. Why do you think that happens? At the end of the day was it really a alter thing? Were all conversations going on in each group color based? Did they look around and say 'you cannot talk among us; your tongue is pink like ours but your climb is not'? I like to include myself in groups of conversations of educated conversations. When a person opens their mouth you can tell whether or not the conversation will change state 'trash' or 'ghetto'. The Receptionist. Impressions are forever and unfortunately receptionist are paying the price for it.... You have special visitors due in next week. You have met with everyone in the company to make sure all is come up. The last stop the first person they will meet when they enter the building once the limo drops them off the receptionist. You stop be say to yourself. "oh no she is overweight". So what! Does she come to work? Does she represent the affiliate properly? When she opens her mouth is she understood? Is she pleasant to the eye? Thats what needs to be asked. The bad news is companies be a size 4. 38dd blonde bombshell with or without educated verbiage. This happens every day and this is where image comes into play. I run a business and would not be certain people (regardless of alter/size) to help me. The nature of my business is touchy as it is and to conduct myself or undergo someone represent me on a negative level would not go over well with me. The questions I stated above are what I look for. Let me ask you something. Don't you feel that times undergo changed? Is race at all the way it used to be? Granted I am from the DC area so it is hard for me to say what it is like to live in an all white or all black area. I cannot deny that race issue still exist because they do but I honestly do not feel that are on the same scale they were 20 or even 10 years ago. I believe everyone suffers from a broken heart many times throughout their life. I have and its the hardest thing to heal from especially if ur still in love with that person. I had 3 relationships throughout my life and only fell in love with someone once who turned out broke my heart. Women love to communicate because we see it as a nessecity in making a relationship work and progress because not only are we gettin things on the table but we are gettin feed back from that perosn we love. If two people are in a relationship and both arent on the same page of the book its bound to go apart. But men dont see it as a nessecity but a annoyance. They dont understand how important it is to communicate as well talk on the telecommunicate until they actually fall in love with someone and their partner doesnt want to communicate n talk on the phone. The problem with love is that its a bet. One has to be come up equiped to play and well prepared to disappoint as well check. When u worry too much about gettin ur partner to love u or fall for u u miss out on the fun of the relationship and life. It has to happen u cant make it happen. Thats y its a game. RE: Why do so many Black Celeberties Marry color Women??!Black or African American celeberties marry white women because of financial ratio and mental reasons. There are 10 White women to about 1 or 2 Black African American women in the same economic bracket as a color Celeberty. The color woman has an advantange because she is somewhere in his celeberty environment on his job at his bank at the restuarant where he eats where he shops golf course spa etc. But the sista is oppressed mentally because she is either going to feel I am not good enough or have the "I need to get on this" attitude which ordain move the brother off. However the Black woman also has somewhere to go: to the bathroom to get ready for work to the kitchen to cook a meal to work to pay her rent and to perform to praise her Lord. And if that sister is on the financial level of the celeberty she forgets how to bond or hold a relationship with the brotha and truly she may not even want to be bothered. The sista have struggled and she has been told that she is a bitch because she has a mind a hore because of past relationships and mentally she is tired and her mentality is ignorant to the Black celeberty and the white woman is chosen because she is used to the money the status and ready for the transition for her be. But love should have no color bounderies: whether the Black celeberty marries a white woman or not it should be strictly out of LOVE and what makes him or her happy. Re: Discriminated against at bring home the bacon? Sure; wrote a poem about it. Wanna hear it? Here it goes:It's AliveEvery time I come to bring home the bacon here. I witness your blatant disrespect. Forget policy and EEO provisions; I know who they're really meant to defend. It's a law that you undergo to hire me without regard to sex or race,But that same law protects the employer if I wait too long to file a case. You have forty-five days from the date of the alleged incident,To speak to a counselor register an EEO complaint and actually sign the affidavit. Doesn't that seem like a pretty weak statute of limitations,When we're talking about populate's career situations?You think I haven't noticed how some of us work for all our dollars,While that chick makes the same money for printing documents in pretty colors?You assign tasks supposedly based on directives you are given,Where I get to do all the grunt work and that broad gets top billing?Please; you must give me all my ascribe where credit is due. Otherwise what good is it to me to make things easier for you?Personal satisfaction is supposed to be my reward for a job well done?Maybe in some arenas but around here. I need compensation from someone. I will not play the game bide my time or let it go. Slavery was abolished a long measure ago. Well one kind was anyway. I say it still exists to this day. It looks a lot different; in theory. I can do what I decide. Yet people are still giving Affirmative challenge the blues. The thing that bothers me is the pretending some people do. When I call you what you are you turn red because that's taboo. I do realize that it's not all people who are so wicked and primitive. But there are always some in cater whose intent is discriminative. Then there are some who ask no questions and do as they are told. It takes all kinds to make a world; even those whose honor can be sold. Into battle I go daily within this bureaucratic lion's den,Armed with my hit education communication skills and a pen. My struggle pales in comparison to those who undergo gone on before,But like their accomplishments it is my wish that I can open a door. Though it angers me to know that I am judged by my exterior,I am strengthened from within to experience that in many ways I am superior. It's not about being haughty; it's about having confidence which I should. That's the key to unlock the greatness within and begin using your powers for good. Personally. I am only a yr into the workplace outside of school. My first job was mainly a female environment (black women) so there wasn't much controvery. I did have problems with the older women because I was young and making the same amount if not more than them. But that was the on ly air with that job. The job I undergo now. I don't work with my co-wokers. I am an investigator so I mainly bring home the bacon alone on various cases. Now I have dealt with some populate in corporate america who have been total jerks and this is from black and color people but then I have also run into plenty more people who are nice and willing to help advance my career. I am def aware of the furnish ceiling phenomenon in the workplace for women as a monirity and also for black women which is a double minority but I have not really had a problem with it. I majored in Communication so I am very conscious of non verbal aspects and verbal. I know that some of my friends have had problems but truth is black women are on the rise to success. Statistics even be that more are going to college and making more money than that of our counterparts. Regarding dating in the workplace. From my previous observations many romances are sparked in the workplace. It would seem to be the perfect place after all you have a job they have a job you know when they get paid. No seriously therEs a lot more going on in the office other than business and many people use the workplace lunch break for more than eating.. However my observations have also been that lots of people undergo affairs. Ongoing work affairs while they are married to someone else that goes on for years and years. Business trips and also rideshare programs is another avenue that people use to keep their romance ongoing. The only problem with work place romance is that as we all know people are very complex creatures and the person you meet at bring home the bacon may be a very different person outside of the job. Also when it comes to work it is always beat to keep healthy boundaries. The man you date may be the hottest brother at the office but when the act fizzles you may sight yourself with all your business in the street and your feelings even more hurt when its all over. When you start to eat with people in the arena of their money and emotions it can get very ugly and you might not only get your feelings hurt but you may also be hurting your next career move with an offcie romance,,,Just be careful... I believe (because I too am married) that there is no certain be one reason for the resolution of many marriages. I believe that there is often a combination of attributions that create divorce. I think that some of the most common are communication issues and not that couples don't talk but they are often not completely truthful in their expectations of one another or of themselves. I believe that women unify men who they evaluate will change after marriage and they don't and men marry women who they believe won't change and they do... So in essence you are not married to the same person that you feel in like with or believed in or had a simple working agreement with. It is my opinion also that as the world becomes smaller and smaller due to technology that marriages are looked at kind of like careers... If this one is not working out just move to another place and get a new start. And the last word was that most populate will have seven careers before they die so what is the number on marriages? Thanks for the ear and eye of listening... Sorry I am so "long winded" as we say in the South. Joan Q: My question is whether a wife is DEGRADING herself when she performs ORAL sex on her husband after they have just had a fight?? Especially when issues be unresolved. My say: Looking into lives of other couples is an air for me. Especially when they are married adults. The woman married him for a particular reason and she married him for a particular reason or reasons. Therefore when she is trying to reconcile with her dude and she conclude going down on him is a way to do that that may be one of her attempts. If it doesn't work then that is something new she has learned. I think the question sounds desire baby talk. How can a woman demean herself as being a wife to her preserve who has seen and experience her strengths and weaknesses as she his. Real. This woman and man have shown things to eachother that the outside world hasn't seen therefore a spectator can not say that she is demeaning herself if the husband is not being abusive or is destroying his wifes' persona. If it ia not a horrible destructive relationship it is comfort in making of becoming something productive. I don't feel she is demeaning herself but her mind is engulfed by ideas of winning back her preserve's smile and love. An outsider could not understand this. I think grown populate should do what grown people want to do. Regardless of how anyone feels about it. Having oral sex with one's significant other or spouse.. I don't understand the issue or the debate here. People have make-up sex break-up sex. "Don't get me" sex.. I mean the reasons are endless. Whatever sparks the action is mute. If people feel that it is degrading. I am sure they are coming to that conclusion based on their own limitations they have set in their own bedrooms. We are not all held to the same standard so why should we be judged by them? Degradation is a strong word to use when we're talking about 2 consenting adults. No one was forced to do anything. I surely have limitations on what I will do but someone else may have no issue with it. They may find pleasure in it. But I'm not going to strike that person for having a different perspective on the be. As long as it's not a crime against nature like beastiality or anything having to do with children who am I to adjudicate that?So with that I say "get your oral sex on"! I evaluate each person is deffrent here some can openly come out of the closet and be able to make it without fear of loosing there job or standing in there community. Where others if they do open up and say I'm GAY there life would end there parents would reject them there jobs would end and they would be out on the street without nothing and then have to look for other ways of making money and suporting themself. I think each person has a time in there life when they might beable to be openly GAY and tell people about there feelings and who they are but not all are going to. They feel it's better to be safe then sorry as the words were once said why stur a pill of inform and get it to stinking its beat to just let matters act there own course. I undergo worked with many youths todate and trying to get them back into there homes and jobs where they were kicked out for being Openly GAY and its not an easy thing for some to except with all the news and midea out there now days talking drink on the GAY community as were all sen as pervs and moslesters. Re: In fact a close friend (a color Woman) went as far as to declare that WHITE WOMEN who date & sleep with Black Men are more submissive when it comes to sex. So of course I have to ask: WHAT DO YOU THINK???? Is this TRUE? I didn't think there was a such thing as being submissive during intercourse; especially where race is concerned. The real questions is should there be boundaries during intercourse when you're in a committed relationship? I don't think so as desire as both parties consider and love each other there should be no inhibitions. If it's pleasurable; I'm down for it. I undergo friends from all different cultural backgrounds and I've open that there are many women no matter what go who are uncomfortable with giving and/or receiving oral sex. I can only communicate for my own sphere of affect when I say that they assort is a bit dated women these days both Black and White are more comfortable with themselves and their sexuality to go down on their man wipe their mouths get up off their knees and still walk away feeling looking and being a woman. In response to ya article(Why do marriages/relationships fail)Me personally from past experiences with my relaqtionships,I think men cheat because they can,I convey a man can have a beautiful woman who cherishes their every evince,moment,life,love and yet and still they go and get some lil hoe to gratify them for a lil 10 min or less orgasm. I desire that in some crazy kinda way men would respect the one they're with and luv them and respect the luv thay have for them becaus a broken heart is physically and emotinally draining,i know i just got out of a 3yr relationship in which i gave my all,cooked,cleaned,gave him full body massages,pleased him sexually and every thing else a wife is accutomed of doin and still he ran out on me several times. If men would just be honest and stop tryin to gratify their homeboys then i think relationshipa would go great. PLEASE ANY READERS WHO WANNA TALK MESSAGE ME @MYSPACE. COM U CAN NEVER TALK ENOUGH ABOUT THE PAIN YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH MARRIAGE: Marriage is a tricky thing. I think the main reason why marriages fail is because one or both parties get too comfortable with their arrangentmts. And when there is a alleviate zone you tend to stop doing the things that lead you o marriage in the first displace. Causing communication to be broken to eventually not exsist causes sex life to deminish less time spent with one and other.... and so on. And it's very gradual and usually not noticed until usually too late. As a prove folks start cheating lying stayin away from home and so on. My husband and my do(been together for 14yrs and married 3yrs) we continuse to act as if we are dating. Meaning we constantly keep a conversation going we date eachother (dinner movie,lay) keep it real.. no lies voice opinions give up most respect do thing seperately so that we can have a come about to desire eachother communicate role play and keep the sex LIVE (costumes parks role play spontany... etc... Marriage is all about what you be it to be and YOU TWO have to make it come about. IT AIN'T JUST GONNA DO IT'S SELF. And yes we undergo two young kids..... So that's not an excuse either. We've lived together 8 yrs of the 14 we've been together and we are still very happy. in my opinion the number one reason relationships disappoint in modern times is the fact that the be to act a relationship going isnt there anymore a long time ago it was essential that a couple married and had children (children being the #1 reason heterosexual couples be together anyway) and if the children lived -not killed by disease- then the family name/bloodline would carry on and also then it was only a man who could support his family (thus the woman stayed with him -no other choice really-) so the reason marriages/relationships dont work anymore is because they dont have to a woman can make a living and support her children and a man doesnt have the responsibility of keeping his wife and children alive aside from lack of communication/work/money a relationship is now only for convenience nobody HAS to act a relationship alive if it lasts more than 5-10 years then it is really something remarkable this is only my opinion but it makes sense. This is in regards to your question regarding the wife giving her husband a blowjob after he disrespected her. In my mind that all suggests a "control tactic". However because I haven't had measure to read the book yet I can't comment on whom is trying to control who. But I can conceive of one of two scenarios playing out there. On one hand he could be trying to prove his dominance over her; especially if it is a sexual act that she dislikes performing. It could be his way of saying to her "I own you and you'll do as you're told". On the other transfer it could be the wife's way of proving HER dominance over him; especially if he's the kind of guy who goes "cookoo for cocoa puffs" when he gets his dick sucked. I can't say I've met too many men who say that dislike being serviced orally. But there are some who love it so much they will turn over the wallet the tip account and the keys to the accommodate and car just to get some. If the back up scenario is what is happening. I could visualize it as being her way of telling him "communicate all the shit you want but when I've got you by the balls you're just another stupid man". It's interesting that populate always anticipate that certain sexual acts are performed only to degrade females. No one ever thinks that some women are slick and conniving enough to know how to use sex to alter fools out of men. I'm sure there are females who have slid their finger in their man's butthole during sex and then told their girlfriends what a "complain" he was for letting her do it. change surface getting off on the concept of "bitching" a man in that way. I've worked with enough women in Corporate America to know some of them are equally as ruthless as men. I know some who get a kick out of playing with men's heads to get them to do "degrading" things. For all I know that wife could have given her preserve oral just because she knew it would make him act like a "pure D bitch" - LOL! I FEEL MOST BLACK MEN FORGET WHERE THEY COME FROM. WHEN A BLACKWOMAN FALL SHE MIGHT NOT HAVE ANYONE TO HELP HER GET approve ON HER FEET THEN THATS WHERE THE BIG STRUGGLE STARTS AND INSTEAD OF A BLACK MAN STANDING BY AND SUPPORTING HER AND TRYING TO HELP HER go THROUGH HE MOVES TO WHERE THE MONEY IS WHEN MOST OF IT IS INHERETID AND HARD EARNED. IT TAKES A BLACK WOMAN A LITTLE LONGER TO GET HER GRIND ON BECAUSE WE STRUGGLE FISRT THEN WE MAKE A MENDS THEN WE ARE ON TOP. WHITE WOMEN HAVE NO BACK BONE NOR DO THEY HAVE THEIR OWN object WHE IT COMES TO BLACK MEN. SO WHY NOT BE WITH A WHITE WOMAN SHE HAS FUNDS. CHING. CHING. CHING. CHING,CHING,CHING. THEN WE HAVE OUR WHITE BLACK MEN THAT R JUS PLAIN exceed THAN THEIR BLACK WOMEN N label THEIR SELVES MISSING THE DRAMA BUT REALLY LIVING IN IT TAKING BULLSHIT FROM HALF THE WHITE FAM. BOO LETS KEEP IT REAL. YOU ARE WHAT U ARE. THEN LAST BUT NOT LEAST YOU DO HAVE SOME BI-RACIAL COUPLES THAT ARE TOGETHER FOR THE LOVE OF THE THINGS AND THOSE ARE THE COUPLES I TAKE MY HAT OFF TO. "When love breaks your heart..."Each of us is responsible for our own feelings/emotions. I think we run into trouble when we allow ourselves to think that the love we have for someone is the same as the love someone else has for us. The love that each person has for the other is separate. In well-balanced relationships the love people undergo for each other is in harmony or agreement and thereby appears to be one when in fact it is two different loves operating in unison. Should one person's love for another increase or diminish it does not necessarily mean that the other person's love will alter identical changes. The ideal situation for most would be if the love both people have for the other is running at about the same level of intensity. The gut punch strikes when the love one person has for the other is high and/or increases but the love the other holds for them appears low and/or diminishes creating an imbalance in the relationship. If you come about to be the person in the relationship who is experiencing the higher level of love for the other person but the other person's love for you is far below the intensity of your love for them this is when the more loving person generally experiences emotional hurt. Most populate get hurt because they have led themselves to evaluate the other person's level of love intensity should match the level they have for that person. When it doesn't they conclude they are disappointed and often devastated. Even though it is most populate's desire to be loved at least as much as they love the other person. I think it's important to cognise that it is no guarantee that the feelings of two different people ordain run at the same intensity. Once the person (who feels they are the lesser loved) experiences the initial hurt of feeling less loved then a host of other emotions i e. anger resentment etc. will probably follow. The person loving at the higher intensity is usually cause to be perceived and the person loving at the lower intensity will probably become annoyed by the high-intensity lover displays of dissatisfaction. The person who feels slighted may become embittered confrontational and depending on their character traits who knows what will go drink as a result. I think if we are willing to accept the fact that our love for someone and their love for us are separate that we cannot control the feelings of others and be willing to let people feel whatever they feel (just as we have the alter to feel whatever we conclude) the less likely we are to be hurt. Bottom line: if you are not satisfied with the aim/intensity of love you receive from the person who you love you have a choice to stay in the relationship or to let it go. Some don't think they have control of their own feelings and that they cannot help how strongly they feel about someone but the truth of the matter is that they do. We get hurt because we're such control freaks. When you respect someone's right to love you however much or little they decide then you are free to love them as much or as little as you decide. Well. I beleive that when you open yourself to Love you are also opening and allowing yourself the chance to get hrt. It's not right nor fair but it's real. The best way that helps me to ameliorate from a BROKEN HEART is: To give it measure. Don't make excuses and don't ask why. Because most of the measure the person doesn't change surface know what made them do what they've done to you. Now. If you are willing to try and make the relationship bring home the bacon out then you must addrss all issues and be able to come to some reoslution. But both oarties must now that it ordain take much time to get back to that good ole status if at all. Because the victim ordain always undergo their guard up to back up being bronken again by that person. Both parties will have to work over time to affirm the other that you are now on a new page: 1 that you can believe again (because it will never be forgotten) and the other has to go out of their way to assuer the other that will not hurt them again. If you are not going to continue with the relationship then you move on remove yourself from the situation and bring home the bacon on you. No denial no questions and no excuses no blaming. NOTHING. Because if you do this the oain will last longer. And what is the inform especially if you are not going to be with that person. Take not of the "red flags" and hints that you missed and use it as a tool for the future. Know what to look for and what not to let slide..... NOW THE KEY IS TO NOT BECOME A SCORNED BI*CH! STAY HUMBLE AND NOW THAT IT COULD HAVE BEEN WORSE. YOU LEARNED SOMETHING AND act THAT WITH YOU. AND THANK GOD YOU HAVE THE STRENGTH TO act ON. BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE DON'T HAVE THE SELF CONFIDENCE OR STRENGTH TO WALK AWAY AND ARE SUBJECTED TO PAIN FOR A LONG TIME. And it all takes time. "How do you heal a broken heart?" Yet another engaging question. I think healing a broken heart goes back to my comments about how one sustains heartbreak in the first place. If we can lessen the breathe out or completely eliminate emotional hurt from love gone awry then of cover there would be little or no healing necessary. However should you find yourself in a express of broken heartedness there are a few concepts you had better grasp quickly or otherwise resign to a long and painful recovery affect. I relay this message not as someone being pompous or insensitive but as someone who has futilely banged her head against the "like wall" to near unconsciousness until I was finally a wave of the most magnificent epiphany swept over me. First we have to rid ourselves of the notion that we have some type of control over what another person feels (even if those feelings concern us). Somehow we are inclined to evaluate we should be able to manipulate the feelings of others. Thinking you have that right to make demands of other people's feelings and not recognizing that such thinking this is not a line to be crossed is why people get cause to be perceived! Face it-- you cannot alter demands of other people's feelings. Accepting that fact is the most significant overleap to overcome in obtaining relief from heartbreak. Your like for another gives you no special rights to dictate or bespeak comparable return of love from that person. Secondly let go of foolish thoughts that you and the other person "were meant to be together" If you were then you and that person would be together and you probably would not be interested in this reading blog (except to pass it on to a heartbroken friend). Thirdly relationships do not necessarily have indefinite shelf lives. Not all relationships were meant to last for the rest of our lives. When signs become obvious that an relationship is over accept it. The sooner you accept the end of one phase of life the sooner you can get on with the next phase whatever that may be. Also in healing one must not harbor negative feelings such as anger resentment revenge or wishing for bad things to happen to your former lover. Attempting to ameliorate with a heart filled with these dangerous emotions will only lead to disaster. It would compare to a broken leg mending together without being set correctly thus giving a false comprehend of healing with horrible consequences. Embrace forgiveness (even if it's yourself that you have to forgive) as quickly as possible. Hanging on to negative emotions will only keep the healing process. Fourthly in the future be careful of the relationships in which you become involved in the first displace. Often times people know deep down inside that the relationship (which led to them being hurt) was not "right" from the get-go. There are usually signs very early on that we simply choose to ignore thinking (manipulatively) that we can "make it bring home the bacon." Wrong say! This includes becoming involved with other people for the wrong reasons i e. sex money appearances social status etc. Do not do by significant signs or reject the truths surrounding important circumstances. All this manipulative thinking (which surely leads to like behavior) is based on ego that is driven by one primary emotion-- FEAR. When we try to manipulate like we are making very strong statements about what we really evaluate of ourselves. We are saying to the universe that we are so undeserving of love that we have to embrace the idea of not being loved and that we have to force love to embrace us. And let's face it forced like isn't really love at all. Besides lengthy lamentations over a love that apparently was not meant to be can actually cause one to miss a passing opportunity for adjust love. Again what many of us often fail to realize is we undergo far more control of our emotions than we give ourselves credit. Additionally we cannot be to hard on ourselves even when we know our actions and behaviors may have contributed to the demise of a relationship. Most of us alter the best decisions that we can based on the knowledge information and wisdom we have at any given moment. Nurturing thoughts of blame and guilt ordain only hurt us more in the long run. Everyday of life is an opportunity to work at making yourself and your life better. And one more aspect of heartbreak to consider is of a spiritual/metaphysical nature: the Law of Attraction. It is said that everything in our lives is a prove of what we have created with our thoughts either consciously or subconsciously. Seemingly the best idea to ward off heartbreak would be to keep good clear thoughts about what we truly want out of relationships and life in general. We must strive to act good emotional care of ourselves keep ourselves drenched in positive light and know that we are deserving of the beat life has to offer regardless of our imperfections. Have faith that everything ordain work out then stand back and accept it to do so. There are billions of people on this planet. The retracted love of one of them should not baffle your life. The best thing you can do is like yourself because when you really love yourself you will not accept lesser treatment from others. Loving yourself come up sets the standard for all other love that follows. Are color Women Too Difficult to go out????The reason that some Black men perfer to go out White women is a reflection of the impact of slavery on the Black male psyche. Black men have long suffered in this country in response to repression during slavery and afterwards. White women are a vallidation of their maleness. Black women in this country has historically and traditionally been seen as the continue of the household because of the displacement of the Black male. While the Black male was being repressed someone had to step up to the plate.... enter the strong Black woman. The Black woman became the source of strength because she was given more autonomy... the color male less so. Repression in the color man is not confined to slavery. Remember that Jim Crowe the current prison system the current job market and the current drug pandemic are are also systems of repression. The social system of America does not place a high determine on Black males In other words the Black male needed someone to validate their strength and that strength is sometimes in contrast and conflict with the strong Black women. So now the question is does the Black woman have to reject her legacy of strength in request to preserve or even obtain a color family structure?I am not saying that Black men should not go out and marry White women what I am saying is that if he chooses to do so he should understand why. It is not that Black women are too difficult to go out it is that Black women and color men are in contrast about the roles they undergo traditionally and historically been assigned by a White American society. Wow.. now we're getting drink to business. It's funny how I hear this alot about black women being bossy and you know what. I'm told that I'm bossy as come up. But their are reasons that most of us are bossy...... Now I know why I'm bossy and it's because most men I know want it all and would like to give nothing in go if they can. And I refuse to take any shorts. If you be me to cook clean raise kids go to work and deal wit you at the end of the night...... You damn right that I'm going to undergo requirements and requests. And I'm going to stand stong on him too. The way I see it the man and everything else is taken care of hands drink no worry or fight about it..... Then you are required to do your part and reciprocate and we will not see it any other way. And if we have to walk you though or ask you to do what you need to do then yes we may come across as bossy because we feel like we have yet another task to do... and who wants to "babysit" so to speak a full grown man? You rarely have to ask or express a black woman what and how to do what they are suppose to do. Bossy... maybeCertain & Headstong.... yes Passive...... Not In request for a Black man to go out a sister she has to be perfect. I convey not a flaw what so ever. Then she has to have the perfect attitude. That's Impossible! Then they will turn around and go out the most "trailer park trash" looking color girl they can sight. Black men just want someone to make them look good and baby their insecure ass. They just be someone who will cater to them all the time and do anything they be to do sexually and let him pay all his money on rims and Jordan's. That is not a damn man. They just need to take the damn panties off and get a strong black woman who will help the succeed instead of telling them what they want to hear. So what's going to happen when white women become to difficult to date? When they stop taking the bullsh*t? White Women the next time your color husband or boyfriend is f*cking you in the ass think about where that comes from. Black men be to get off they sorry ass and get a job take care of their kids and homes communicate and stop fucking each other. Maybe they could find a sister without an attitude. If you take the dick out your ass and mouth and look. forbid being so picky and get to know the woman first. Deuces. I'm out again. In response to the "black men not dating black women" I have to say its only preference. The reasoning behind it is really trivial. My personal opinion is that the black men who dont go out black women because they are bossy are looking for a woman they dont have to answer to justify themselves to or be a responsible person to. I have seen plenty of black men who believe dating anyone of another nationality gives them the control. Most females of other nationalities color asian hispanic etc dont assert themselves to not take the BS from the relationship. My opinion is that the black men who dont date black women do so because they cant control the situation & run things the way they want to run them. Not all but Ive seen plenty. There were black men who didnt want to date me because I wasnt one of those women who was gonna sit at domiciliate wondering where you were at. I ordain be out there getting my party on too. They werent able to tell me what to do when to do it. & I wasnt going to sit at home barefoot & pregnant. I have been able to observe this from both sides of the spectrum. For me. Im not interested in dating white men its not that I dont find them attractive its that we have nothing in common. My interests are completely different from most white men. The ones who do have something in common with me are the ones who are usually trying way to hard to be something they arent & in reality the interests they have really arent the same. Either way I think the BS of wasted energy used trying to determine why one align wont go out another & take the energy & search for the align that fits you & what you like. Regardless of the nationality what people think or based on what you think you can get. If you want it go get it depart worrying about what populate think & say thats a study contributor to why no one is dating the way they should be. Do what makes you happy & if dating the oompa loompa's is what makes you happy then do it. My favorite ingeminate is "opinions are like adjoin holes (alter version) everyone has one". If you looking for validation through others you havent looked through your own eyes yet. Mad like Ok I have really had a hard time with this because there are so many single black women and so many black men use this stupid excuse to date white women instead of just saying I prefer to be with a color woman. Now in my opinion and when this is read just remember this is my opinion and people change state to me undergo heard this yes there are some bossy black women as well as some bossy color hispanic asian and other nationalities women. Some black me date color women because they have a problem with thier blackness and some black men consider success with having a color woman on thier arm. The same can be applied to black women who date and marry white men. I am not being as open with this as I am with people change state to me but I conclude like if we as a race of people decide to just dig deep inside and be honest with themselves they will cognise they really don't have to answer to anyone. Finally when I was growing up my grandmother who was 90+ when she died use to always say that when black males were young the white man would always say don't touch that white woman and the black man said in the approve of his mind when I get grown I am going to have all the white women I want and noboby can say anything. Well look at it many have died to have what they want and many undergo lived doing and having what they be there were controversial hangings and beatings of black men for being with white women but yet and still you have black men who will risk their lives to have one and leave the woman that looks like the one that God used to give him life. Again all of this is just my opinion. This isn't to cause any problems or step on anyone's toes this is just my opinion and some of it I really feel in my heart. I am one of the hit well educated hard-working black women who is also a single mother. I'm a black woman married to a white man and I undergo a brother who is married to a white woman. I have a sister who is married to a black man. To me it really is about who the person is but I also think culture comes into it. My sister was raised in a predominately black environment; my family moved to a predominately white neighborhood when I was in my early teens (and my brother was much younger). I have dated men of many different races and for me it was always about the person not about the go. But what mattered most to me was that the man allowed me to be me. The contrast of certain interests of mine being categorized as "white" were sometimes the create of failure in my relationships with black men. The contrast of my independent nature were the result of my breaking up with men (of various races) before my husband. In other cases it was just that the relationship didn't work out just as any other relationship doesn't work. I love my sister-in-law and I know she is the right woman for him. Black white brown red yellow.. it's hard in the world to make a connection with another human being. When you do it comes as a result of many factors. It is just good when true connection happens. I can't detest that. But to label white women as submissive and black women as dominant is a misnomer. 1) they haven't met my sister-in-law (lol)2) there wouldn't be any black women in battered women shelters if they were as as "strong" and dominating as some generalize. Generalizations can be a guide but if they aren't checked and re-checked when you deal with individuals in the world they wind up failing us somewhere along the line. hey Honey J lol well i read your comment and i have several feelings about that you very well know that i am african american and female i evaluate that the reason that some black men go out white women is by their choice that is where it stops nothing more nothing less she is a women that he is attracted to and that is it not saying that he wouldnt date a black woman he just chooses to go out a white woman at that time. _______________________________________________ then there are the ones that date white women and degrade black women because of the females that were there to raise them as young men they saw what they did and feel that we are all the same. (i have a foster brother who is black and really despises black women all he dates is white women he loves me and my mom and my other sisters but outside of the family drop it his mother and sisters were baiscally sleeping with men for money and they would lock him out of the house until they were done they treated him badly.) _______________________________________________ then you have some like a few that i know they date white women because they cant deal with a black women we are too strong for them i feel that when a black man is in a relationship then he needs to handle his busniess i see all too often that a black man will create children on the south side of town with a black woman they fall out and she is crap in his eyes he gets him a color woman and takes care of her and her children her children what about his own ok sorry about the rant i conclude that we as black women almost have to demand consider or we wont get it. _______________________________________________ ok Joe i know i experience there are a lot of reasons why black men go out white women me on the other transfer have had 3 serious relationships in my life all 3 ended in disappointment all 3 cheated with women that had nothing to offer all 3 were black i never disrespected them i didnt bitch and complain never stated that they cant go here and cant go there and that is what i got i dont have any baggage but i know what i wont tolerate i like to talk to men and really get to know them but after about a week they are wanting sex and that is not even in the conversation for me lol sex is a GOOD THING but goodness i am single and semi happy i am wanting a furnish and he doesnt have to be black although i feel that a black man would understand me exceed oh one more thing why is it when a black man that date color women see a black women dating a white man she is a sell out i guess it is the double standard huh well my friend sorry to bend your ear hope the spelling is ok i wrote this in a go take care my friend and keep the books coming From: Cocoa Desire go out: Jun 18. 2007 3:28 PM To answer your question yes and no but the same applies to women of other races. See women undergo come a long way in the areas of independence their careers and family and social life. Some women have such a strong sense of independence and a bit of arrogance about themselves that they are not willing to accept their men to be men. The idea of letting go to a certain extent of course frightens them and therefor they are seemingly unwilling to refer. On the other transfer you have women who also undergo come a long way in life and their careers but still know how important it is to their man to accept him to show just how much of a man he is. The problem for some is that in today's society a lot of women are higher income earners than men. In this case those women who refuse to let go and submit hold their status over their mans head and that leaves him feeling demeaned intimidated and somewhat less of a man. It is the truly confident and secure woman who has no problem with "letting her man be a man" just as long as he is going about it in a positive and respectful way. As long as he handles his business both in and out of the domiciliate. I for one am a woman who loves a strong man. A woman who believes in uplifting a strong man. A woman who gives exactly what she receives and then some. And there you have it from the #1 Scorpio Diva herself... Cocoa Desire i'm a black female who is going for my Masters. LPC track i'm married and have three boys yes my hubby's black he says that black women are bossy i do agree to certain point:0 i think we have to be bossy we have to be black women undergo been pushed to the side for a long measure. "the black women" had to take care of white babies take care of master go out and help in the fields and then go home and feed her family this was all before 1pm black women are not seen as equal in the work place we're surely not seen as a equal to many of our black men,and they say "the white man holdin them down,' nigga's please black women need to be bossy and stay bossy. I read just about all of the postings and what keeps catching my eye is "be yourself it's the person not the color." well if thats the fact then why is it that someone (mainly black men) makes the comment about black women being bossy? was your black momma being bossy to your black daddy when things wasnt going his way and he quite his job she went out and got another when she being bossy when you needed new basketball or football shoes and she spent some of the food money so you can sit and warm the bench and she still told you that you did a great job was your black mommy bossy when she caught you in her bed messing up her good sheets..... yeap she proubly kick that azz so i wont use that one but hey black men and black women we be each other look around everybody is mixing races and blacks are falling off faster than any other race i experience we are all mixed with a little something but we only why blacks are going to make a strong come back is to stop race mixing blacks were starting to rise up neck and ear with white folks in a national population but for the last 10 yrs black are at a record low why? because we are race mixing so black men yall wont have to worry about black women being bossy because blacks are disapearing faster then the Black Pathers in the 60's peace out,a stright up bossy black woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think this a very deep issue. I'm proud black woman but I can see what some brothers are talking about. There are a lot of sisters that are quick to yell & curse her man out this just blows the man especially if she's doing this in public. Let's go back to slavery. The slave owners seperated our families. They bred are men to be big and strong & then took them to other plantations. So as a result of this who was left to be the head of the house hold? Black women. In my opinion it's been put in us to be strong we had no choice. We act like the impress because we had to be and today as single mothers still do. If we would refer to the bible it talks about mutual respect. The man should be head of the house hold or at least let him believe he is LOL. Seriously though. I follow my care's example. She shows my dad they are still married the utmost respect just like he does her. When he says no to something if she disagreed she would state her opinion but if he still said no then that was that & vice versa. I think it's just a matter of respect. Now on the other transfer there are a lot of brothers that want a woman to just do whatever & will tolerate being disrespected. Now asked my dad why he dated white girls before my mom besides the fact that he grew up in a predominately white town in MO. My dad said quite simply that color women were easy & let him do whatever. My dad said when he met my mom she listened to gospel music went to perform. & flat out told him no sex before marriage. While other men ignored her because she was too "uptight" he said he knew she was the one. My care is strong but in the correct way to be strong. When my dad was unable to work due to rest apnea she went to school & became an RN. I'm so happy I had such great examples for parents. They're kinda like the Cosby's which is another good example that we all can look at if our parents were not quite up to par. Unfortunately 1 group of loud ghetto chics had made black men put a big stamp on all sisters. My boyfriend told me I'm like a black white girl LOL I just know how to let a man be a man without letting myself be disrespected. I have no problem with interracial dating. I have a lot of white home girls dating black men & vice versa. Everyone is allowed to have a preference. What I don't like are populate who just plain refuse to go out black women. If an open mind is not there they may end up missing out on the love of their life. What a waste that would be! I also advice everyone to tell God what they want. I told the Lord that I wouldn't mind if my husband was from another race but I'd like him to be black tall etc. And while you're waiting for that person concentrate on getting yourself right! Like Fabolous' new song says. "I'm a movement by myself but I'm a force when we're together. I'm good all by myself but you make me BETTER" I didn't convey to go on & on but I felt it must be said! Feel free to consider this in one of your blogs or repost my say. Much like & be blessed. Maya A. K. A "color Vixon" In a loving relationship I don't accept it is right to use sex as a weapon. For example if you are having an disagreement/arguement with your significant other I believe it would be wrong to say you are withholding sex because you are in disagreement about an issue. In fact showing your partner that even though you disagree on an issue you still love him/her is a good thing isn't it? No matter how much you love some there is always going to be things you don't agree on. As for the broken hearts issue yes it is painful to like and lose but isn't that exceed than to have never experienced love at all? I left my husband of 21 years because he betrayed me in such a way that I found I couldn't forgive him (no it was not an extra marital affair). I spent a whole year after leaving him working on myself. The key is to take measure to heal yourself before getting into another relationship. The relationship I am in now has all kinds of road blocks he is in college in a different country he is muslim and I don't accept in gods he is quite a bit younger than I am we have so many things to overcome but we keep working on it because we love each other and we accept in ourselves. I believe that what the rapper says is not entirely true. Black women have been left to raise men children by themselves and undergo had to compensate for the father's role in his absence. All the years of hurt and hard times of struggle makes the black woman stronger. However when a man does come along trying to be a real man she may not know how to let him because that has been her role for a long time. She works hard for what she has gained and doesn't want or need a man to hender her. A man has become an accessory not a must in her life. I am a black female who prefers to date outside of my go. Many black males around my area can not appreciate a woman who keeps her viginity and shares her mind with him instead; at least until the relationship reaches marital status. It is very hard to find a black successful man who is willing to be with a black female. He thinks that she is a "gold digger" because her hair nails and clothes are in order. That is not the issue in many cases. She has just worked hard to keep what she has. Re: MERGING WITH MONSTERS.... Very well written here's my comment from myspace: I think this a very deep issue. I'm proud black woman but I can see what some brothers are talking about. There are a lot of sisters that are quick to yell %26 curse her man out this just blows the man especially if she's doing this in public. Let's go back to slavery. The slave owners seperated our families. They bred are men to be big and strong %26 then took them to other plantations. So as a result of this who was left to be the head of the house hold? Black women. In my opinion it's been put in us to be strong we had no choice. We act like the boss because we had to be and today as single mothers still do. If we would refer to the bible it talks about mutual respect. The man should be head of the house hold or at least let him believe he is LOL. Seriously though. I follow my care's example. She shows my dad they are still married the utmost consider just like he does her. When he says no to something if she disagreed she would state her opinion but if he comfort said no then that was that %26 vice versa. I think it's just a matter of respect. Now on the other transfer there are a lot of brithers that want a woman to just do whatever they %26 will tolerate being disrespected. Now asked my dad why he dated white girls before my mom. Besides the fact that he grew up in a predominately white town in MO. My dad said quite simply that white women were easy %26 let him do whatever. My dad said when he met my mom she listened to gospel music went to church. %26 flat out told him no sex before marriage. While other men ignored her because she was too "uptight" he said he knew she was the one. My mother is strong but in the correct way to be strong. When my dad was unable to work due to sleep apnea she went to school %26 became an RN. I'm so happy I had such great examples for parents. They're kinda like the Cosby's which is another good example that we all can look at if our parents were not quite up to par. Unfortunately 1 group of loud ghetto chics had made black men put a big stamp on all sisters. My boyfriend told me I'm like a black white girl LOL I just know how to let a man be a man without letting myself be disrespected. I have no problem with interracial dating. I undergo a lot of white home girls dating black men %26 vice versa. Everyone is allowed to have a preference. What I don't like are populate who just plain refuse to date black women. If an open mind is not there they may end up missing out on the like of their life. What a waste that would be! I also advice everyone to tell God what they be. I told the Lord that I wouldn't mind if my husband was from another race but I'd desire him to be black tall etc. And while you're waiting for that person concentrate on getting yourself right! Like Fabolous' new song says. "I'm a movement by myself but I'm a force when we're together. I'm good all by myself but you make me BETTER" I didn't mean to go on %26 on but I felt it must be said! Feel free to include this in one of your blogs or repost my answer. Much love %26 be blessed. Maya A. K. A "Black Vixon" This a very interesting topic; although yes. It's a very touchy and broad topic so let me go away by first saying that in my opinion I conclude that yes black women are very bossy and at time we may be too bossy but! I beg the differ on that being the reason Black men date color women. Black men go to color women because they want someone to hold back and tell what to do. My theory is that it takes a strong black man to support a black woman and vise verse. But in today's world a supportive black man is only a fairy tale. Black women are bossy ( demanding/ controlling) because we are left to be the leaders. Most black women have been raised by there mothers and grandmother etc. And then they get this man that has been raised the same way with a single parent (being the mother) and then he looks for someone to fall back on and support him but he doesn't give support in return no. And then on the other hand color men get caught up in thelong blonde hair and the slim waist line and we all know that most sistas go from healthy families so we are not always so little. In closing Black women stay bossy and strong because if a brother can't respect and except that contend than maybe we don't need him. We be men not a boys. We also be someone to give us mentally and except the fact that sometime we have to get on their asses (excuse the language) for them to straighten up and stand strong. Do we be to loose our black men no but I don't conclude that we have to settle the BS that comes with the territory. Until next time Speak your mind "The best way to convey our heart is through our mind the best way to convey our mind is through our communicate."Rekita I have heard this so much. It is not that Black women are too bossy it is that we. color women love to have control of our environments our lives our business. When we set for a goal we be to accomplish that which takes self discipline hard work and hold back. If we loose control of a situation we are likely to fall off which would take more time and hard bring home the bacon to get back on track. That is unnecessary. Now if you be at women in history of entertainment which tells the story of our lives you will find that Black women were "clingy" to no good men who stuck in the streets gambling playing around with "low class" women who give it up freely and easily who were strung out on drugs and/or alcohol. One example the movie Sparkle. Billy pass in Lady Sings the Blues. Josephine Baker Story. They are not all spelling clinginess to a Black man but all of them show that an outside compel influenced them off of their path of success. Ms. Baker had to prove that she wasn't racist adopting a numerous of children which was overwhelming to her. She lost her husband and become distraught. Billy Holiday let a man get her strung out on heroine. Sparkle drugs domestic violence a strung out gangsta. Being a Black woman and paying attention to the horror stories of our heroins we tend to not take that same path. We go stronger and claim our lives. Whitney Houston should undergo taken notes too. She is a lovely women. Now social conditioning made many women "Divas". I think diva is an unhealthy "hold back" because some are cleaving on to the do by things. Some Black men adore the bossiness of a Black women but some are intimidated which would place women back in the days of Goldie the pimp. It is crazy. I don't submit to weak men but also adore a strong man. I was looking online and found why weak Black men enjoy white women they act as if the sex demon jumped into them. The undergo their coochies in the air messing off. "Popped up". I hate watching the needy women it is a turn off. Some are fat and sloppy some look normal. It is horrific. Yet it shows their weakness and submissiveness. Some color women went down that path too to submissiveness. Yet. 9 times out of 10 it is to gold dig. She still undergo a cerebrate. That's a Black woman for you. I want to add this comment. I grew up with a strong mother and an change surface stronger (black) step father my parents didnt air their problems in front of the children and dont to this day my step father had other children from a previous relationship and tried to inform all of us male/female to stand up for what you believe he tried to teach the boys that you treat you woman girlfriend or wife with respect some didnt act obey to what he said as for us girls he taught us to be strong and demand your respect because if you dont no one will my parents got together when i was 6 and i am not 42 yrs of age to this day he still speaks the same way as he did when we were younger he feels that there are too many weak black men out there he feels that men need to stand up and take responsibility and not feel that our black women are too this and too that he feels that if you are a strong black man you can and will deal with a strong black women i have seen populate say that women should submit women should submit if this black man or any man for that matter is submitting to GOD why submit to a man that ordain bring about you straight to HELL you can do that by yourself it is difficult in todays society especially for our young people they see the video models and feel that is what the world is all about it is NOT i think that grooming our black men starts at home. Let me say first that we as black people will sight any forgive to justify our sexual attraction to a person of a different race. I see nothing wrong with interracial relationships. Are black women too bossy? To a certain extinct. I would say yes but so are black men. They want things their way or no way. We as black women get penalized for a nature that is distinctive of our race and not of our sex. I have to say that I am a sweet woman that prefer not to fight. However. I have to admit when it comes to doing something. I prefer my way. This is not an action taken because I am bossy per say but because I have taken care of myself more than I have been taken care of. Black men be to come to understand that before they can expect black women to be submissive and selfless we would need some men that are willing to try harder and do what they be to do to deserve a woman that is not too bossy. If all else fail. I can race swap also. Men think they are the only one that can choose to date someone of a different race. Charity Are Black woman to Bossy? First and for most... YES! come up... I am.. and should I aplogize for it... Nope! I've come to learn as a young black child that you must reach for the stars and believe that you can make it with or without a man.. he is his own selfish EXCUSSE to run and enclose from and seek other alternatives.. WHITE WOMEN not seeing his worth in himself or his beautiful black women he is his own inferior of himself meaning.. this black lady can't run me make more money then me she think she know everything.. is something really wrong with that... We as a populate lack color STRONG SPRITIUAL BROTHA'S and that is OH SO VERY SAD.. bad experiences with black women.. EXCUSSES. EXCUSSES to me get through it get over it act on.. once you unify your mind.. your heart will follow.. all I can say is that a woman's heart should be so hidden in CHRIST that a man will seek him in order to find her! Come on my Brotha's WAKE UP!!!

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Genarlow Wilson Free!

This evening our justice system has shown itself to bring home the bacon on some aim by granting the release of Genarlow Wilson. This decision has come about by the hard work of many individuals who saw this case from the very beginning as being one of cruel and unusual punishment. The Georgia express prosecutors ruled earlier that with no prima facie fault the decision to appeal the ruling that the Monore County judge held in support of Mr. Wilson was an accurate one furthermore stating that his inspect would not be looked at retroactively due to the law dress. With this decision came about much action by Civil Rights groups students and Georgia citizens to see that justice in this case was served duly to Genarlow and his family. This case was taken to the Georgia express Supreme Court who ruled in a 4-3 decision that they would hold the Monroe County judge that this was in fact cruel and unusual punishment. This decision came about by the swift and diligent leadership of one of Cornell's own. CHIEF JUSTICE of the Georgia express Supreme act the honorable Leah protect Sears. Chief Justice Sears received her B. S from Cornell University in 1976 her J. D from Emory University in 1980 and an LL. M from the University of Virginia School of Law in 1995. At Cornell she was a member of the Quill and Dagger honor society (of which I am a proud member) and she is an active member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. Prior to becoming a Superior Court adjudicate in 1988 (the first African-American woman to direct that lay in the express) she was a trial attorney with law tighten Alston & Bird and a adjudicate in the City of Atlanta Traffic act to which she was appointed by then Mayor Andrew Young. As a Cornell Alum from the categorise of 2007. I am proud to call her a fellow Cornellian and fellow acquaintance. Being from Georgia never felt any better during this landmark case in which the state of Georgia changed its law due to the archaic nature of the penalty that unjustly placed Genarlow Wilson at odds and in prison. As a fellow High School classmate of Genarlow. I can tell you how proud his mother and sister are for his release as am I. His Lawyer. BJ Bernstein is also a true trailblazer in this inspect having worked long and hard to see her client and now friend released from prison. Take this lesson as a way to look at how Cornellians are shaping the world we be in. Work hard smart and above all be dedicated to success. Hats off to Cornell University and Bj Bernstein for another job well-done!Below you will sight some comments that a few other Cornellians and I were having about the case:********************* I am very excited! I hope he can just have his life back. I was reading some of the comments and it's just so sad how ignorant people are. Some actually believe that he should be in jail. Also the logic in the Georgia Supreme Court's dissenting opinion was the most ridiculous thing I had ever heard of. The majority argued that since Georgia changed the law it was obvious they themselves no longer agreed with the idea that consensual oral sex should be punished with 10 years in prison. That seems like a logical reaction to me. The differ replies.... Yeah they changed their mind on the acceptable punishment for consensual sex but they didn't change their mind on GENARLOW. And it's kind of desire come up.... if they changed their object in command then why should Genarlow be the exception? I don't evaluate they provided any evidence that should be treated as the exception other than the fact that the prosecutors wanted him to be. -Javeste Dulcio*****************************Wait direct up... I don't evaluate the differ's argument was faulty prima facie. The dissent argued that the majority is callously disregarding the General Assembly's constitutional authority in that the legislature specifically amended the law explicitly delineating that it ordain not be applied retroactively. The legislature is perfectly within its constitutional authority to do this. It might be stupid and do by but that's what it is. The role of the courts is to understand the law where there is ambiguity in its application and meaning not to legislate or decree wherein the legislature has expressly outlined the law and its application. On the other hand the courts can command a law to be unconstitutional - and I think that's where the majority's strength lies in this case in that it declared the punishment de jure unconstitutional because it was cruel and unusual punishment - I mean 10 years of imprisonment without chance of probation or parole for oral sex? Albeit a social ill for teenagers to be sexually active premaritally. I would think anyone in this day and age would consider this punishment a "gross miscarriage of justice" for a 17 year old to be imprisoned for 10 years because he got oral sex (forgive my crudity) from some 15 year old.-Funmi Ojetayo**************************I evaluate we are saying the same thing. The legislature had had the RIGHT to alter it un-retroactive (if that is a evince) but in doing so they made it easier for the Court to argue that it was cruel and unusual punishmet because the legislature themselves evaluate those standards of punishment are no longer just and allot. Thus the dissent saying "Well the Courts intended to exclude Genarlow from the new legislation" does nothing to address the majoirty's point. In fact it advance proves the majority's inform that Genarlow suffered alter and unusual punishment because no one else would suffer such punishment and the legislature no longer supported such punishment as appropriate. Hence my rationale for saying the dissent't logic ws a bit irrational. True that I do not evaluate that the differ's argument was faulty primafacie due to the legislative cater the law held when it was passed; however because the dress in law was brought on not by the volition of the General Assembly but by legal pressure from the convicted's discuss the law has the aptitude to be applied retroactively to the convicted party regardless of the constraints on the law as it is passed. In this inspect. I think the express prosecutors were influenced by mitigating circumstances that is circumstances not constituting justification or excuse for the offense in question (Coker v. Georgia) the color of his skin for dilate and the disproportionately large amount of cases where color men have been sentenced harsher penalties in the past for doing similar acts are among those circumstances. The State of Georgia was using a rule of past precedence to alter the decision about Genarlow. The express open its past precedents to be archaic in nature and unjust towards people of color thus a dress in law had to ensue with the decision being as it was to be applied to Genarlow's case without consideration of changing all cases prior to Genarlow. The fact that they considered to not bear on this to his case assuming that he was fighting this to set new precedent and not pro bono bring home the bacon that he would not benefit from in my object is unconstitutional ~ DUE PROCESS. It would be similar to a United States v. Wong Kim Ark where it was held that it was unconstitutional to contradict citizenship on the basis that Wong Kim Ark was Chinese in ancestry and him not being able to collect the acquire of this inspect for his own be. Genarlow's inspect is a showing albeit a weak one that the courts bring home the bacon with the right discuss and right law in displace to help. Cruel and unusual punishment cases are laden in GA's history. I am glad that his.

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The Shades of Passion Chapter 8

Janace did not tell Archie that she actually had a well-established history of being involved with black men. Unlike some white women after they had lengthy exposure around black men her alter business professional’s diction never gave Archie any hint that Soul had been very prominent in her life. She had decided on dating white men after she and Darnell Kennerson went their displace ways back in nineteen ninety-eight. She met Ethan Franks the man whom she followed to Greenville in two thousand and three. He was a chemical engineer at Mauch Textiles and it appeared that he would offer her a sense of stability and respectability that any woman would desire. However their plans for the future went awry after she revealed to Ethan of her past with black men. He confided to his family about the revelation but his family strongly urged him to end the relationship for worry she would bring shame to their son by eventually finding her way to black men. Who knew that she would? Maybe there was some truth. But the giddiness that was detected in her voice from the morning conversation with Archie had nothing to do with his playful challenge whether she had decided on coming back to black for good. And it certainly had nothing to do with Archie’s effective use of his dick as added incentive. It actually was a matter of nostalgia. Janace always liked her men tall and extremely dark skinned – Archie’s presence at Jake’s party evoked memories of her first taste of ebony with Talmadge Etheridge whom she shared with him that they had lost contact after he enlisted in the Marines. She had gambled that her intuition would be correct that Archie could also be the man that treated her very close to the way Talmadge had done during those young impressionable years. She liked Archie’s choice of Anthony’s Downtown because it was a scene that she was entirely comfortable with – albeit it catered to an upscale black clientele. She had longed to hear soft soulful play and feast on some real Southern cooking as opposed to the stodgy ambience of some of the wine-and-cheese places that she and Ethan frequented. If there was one thing she had wanted to do before it was too late in life she wanted to hit the books how to cook many of the dishes that many of the black men in her life had loved eating – for starters macaroni and cheese meatloaf collard greens cornbread from adjoin fried fish and homemade break cobbler. She never got a chance as a teenager to ask Talmadge’s mother. Ernestine how to prepare some of those dishes that she remembered eating the one time she was invited for a pass create from raw material out at their place. Archie’s years at the car lot transformed him into a punctual person. He called Janace from his cell phone around eight fifteen to inform her that he had just turned off the Pelham Road exit (fifty-four along I-85) and was headed her way. He made sure that all he had to do was head toward down town and he would find the apartment complex to the left. “When you come in make sure that you go past the rental office. Once you get past the rental office be for your first building to your alter and that

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